Sometimes I buy lottery tickets. I know it’s dumb but I do it anyway. My ex-husband calls it the “Losery.” No, that’s not why we got divorced. Back when we were married, I bought lottery
tickets far more frequently—weekly, sometimes even twice a week. I can quantify just how many lottery tickets
I bought because I saved them all. I
hoarded these tickets because, in part, I was afraid that one of them was
actually a winner—that I had somehow misread the ticket. I think I also held onto them because I
absolutely hate the idea of wasting money.
The act of throwing away the losing tickets seemed to highlight the
idiocy of playing the lottery. I didn’t
want to admit that I was pissing away money every week, which is something very
contrary to my nature. I am a cheapskate.
For example, I refuse to buy clothes at full price—my wardrobe is
comprised of ill-fitting hand-me-downs or thrift store “treasures.” I never leave lights on around the house
unnecessarily or run the water with reckless abandon. My poor daughter is racing the clock every
time she is in the shower, with me periodically yelling up to ask if she’s
almost done. These are all symptoms of my fear of wasting my money to
the point of not having any.
I’ve always been frugal, but my thriftiness increased in
severity after my divorce. When I moved
out, I was practically destitute, renting rooms from strangers and struggling
to meet my most basic needs. I had been
writing for a magazine for six years and had been supplementing that income
with odd jobs. While I was married, my
income was of no real significance. My
husband was the primary breadwinner. I
worked mostly because I wanted to, not out of necessity. However, as a separated woman—this income was
required. Ironically, as soon as money became a necessity, it promptly
disappeared. The magazine folded with no
notice. Contributors were left with no
explanation and in my case, with no back pay.
The magazine owed me $6,000 which I never saw a penny of. The current supplementary odd job was as a
helper at a woodshop, which in some sick twist of fate also went under, owing
me a considerable amount of money. I was
forced to find another job and also forced to be really careful with money from
that point on.
If losing lottery tickets could pay the bills, I would have
been straight. I had jars stuffed full
of them. In order to put them to use, I
started to try and make “art” out of them.
This would make them feel more like a useful expense. I was buying art supplies—not deluding myself
into thinking that I would strike it rich.
The art became a commentary on my relationship with the lottery. I folded and assembled the tickets to make a
picture of Jesus and another of praying hands.
These stupid tickets were to be my Salvation from the fear of failure.
I don’t really buy lottery tickets that often anymore. Every once in a while, when the jackpot gets
grotesquely large, I buy two. I still
hear my ex-husband’s voice as I buying them and feel moderately ashamed. The kind of shame that you feel when you are
buying tampons or Imodium AD. The
purchase tells someone else a little bit too much about who you are and what
you are going through.
The funny thing is that I don’t immediately check them after
the drawing is announced. Sometimes I
will wait weeks before I confirm that I’m still not a winner. I guess I don’t want to be woken from the
temporary fantasy that the lottery provides.
I like to sit in the daydream of financial security for as long as I
can, imagining how my life would be different—what I could do for myself and
for others (yes—I would be the most benevolent lottery winner ever). Eventually, I do wake up and stuff those
tickets into the jar with all the rest.
I’m only left to imagine how they can be useful.
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